tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13149662.post114109739951544009..comments2023-05-25T04:48:19.856-04:00Comments on Yoga Chickie: The truth is out thereYoga Chickiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01370141306007721604noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13149662.post-1141146086576091742006-02-28T12:01:00.000-05:002006-02-28T12:01:00.000-05:00In the end, YC, it is the same old theme - money i...In the end, YC, it is the same old theme - money is power and control. It is the struggle for control. You will never give in; he will never give in. This is the game you both play. It is cyclical. Nobody ever wins.<BR/><BR/>I say get a job where you earn money and spend it as you wish --no questions need be asked. You have the ability to earn a nice pocket of change part-time.<BR/><BR/>Time to move on. Practice yoga for yourself. Spend time with the kids. Earn and spend money.<BR/><BR/>You know who.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13149662.post-1141138275635878052006-02-28T09:51:00.000-05:002006-02-28T09:51:00.000-05:00Whats the real issue? Are you not as available now...Whats the real issue? Are you not as available now that your practicing Ashtanga or is it an expense that he is having a hard time justifying? Maybe you could start baking cupcakes to help offset the shala fees :).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13149662.post-1141104692157622552006-02-28T00:31:00.000-05:002006-02-28T00:31:00.000-05:00I never discuss my yoga "plans" with my husband if...I never discuss my yoga "plans" with my husband if it isn't interfering with any family time. If it does, we talk about it, like how long I'll be gone, where I'll be. But as far as my yoga path and where I am going with it, I feel I am independent enough in our relationship to make some choices on my own. We don't discuss it. I do yoga, it's my thing and my time. I would get pretty miffed if he were to question my plans, especially since I make the most money.Lees Lamarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03405350119148566356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13149662.post-1141103264269591352006-02-28T00:07:00.000-05:002006-02-28T00:07:00.000-05:00I think that if you are in a partnership than you ...I think that if you are in a partnership than you do need discuss things otherwise you should just be alone (and deserve to be alone). Thats what a relationship is all about - sharing. Sharing everything and maybe not always getting "your way". Its a joint effort otherwise it just won't work. This is a quote that you once wrote: <BR/>"The ideal relationship is one where you don't have to wonder whether or not you're in a relationship! One that is fun and and full of love, respect, support and mutual admiration. In a really good relationship, BOTH partners get out of it more than they put in. In other words, the whole is greater than the sum of the parts!"<BR/><BR/>Jill SAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com